If nothing else, simple quizzes can spark ways for you to gain new insights about your relationships. They can trigger you to consider going back to the topics of initial curiosity, in the early days of your relationship, in a way getting back to basics. Dr. John Gottman’s name comes up again and again, especially […]
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We can hold on to what’s most important by letting go of the little stuff. We can improve our relationships by learning to let go of the minor details. So often it boils down to the little pieces – how things get done, when things get done. We forget we can save energy and spare
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You can rely on two easy words to “Whow” your way to a better relationship. It just takes some effort to pick up on the way you currently ask questions, and then replace them with more effective questions. You can just shift to questions that elicit honest, open responses from your partner. Common mistakes in
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The New York Times’ Well Blog is one of my regular reads because it gives accessible, digestible ways to live life well. This particular entry speaks to me as it briefly explains the benefits of preventive marital counseling, for the same reasons we get dental check-ups and annual physicals. A little investment now protects our
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“Oh, I don’t care what we do for vacation. But, I don’t want to go too far… I don’twant to just sit on the beach for a week… I don’t feel like Chinese tonight…”“You always leave just the crumbs in the box… You never take out the garbagebefore I ask.”“I can’t find a way to
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